Today, Mary of Bethany ministers to Jesus. While they were gathered at the table, Mary approached Jesus with a container of expensive perfumed oil. She knelt at Jesus’ feet. Then she opened the container of oil and began to cleanse His feet and then she anointed His feet with exotic and expensive oil. This is not a custom that we have today. However, in Jesus’ time, when a guest arrived at someone’s home, their feet were dirty and dusty from traveling the dirt roads and streets. Sandals did not provide any protection from the dust and dirt. Thus, when a guest arrived, a servant would wash the feet of the guest. This washing was cleansing and refreshing and it also helped keep the house clean.
Then Mary begins to wash Jesus’ feet. Mary should not be washing Jesus’ feet! This was a task for the slaves and servants, not for a member of the family. Mary not only washed Jesus’ feet, she also had the audacity to dry his feet with her hair! What an intimate act! Many of the guests were shocked. What was Mary thinking? Her action was completely inappropriate. However, no one spoke a word.
After a few moments, Judas Iscariot finally asked why this expensive oil had not been sold and the money given to the poor. 
Jesus knew that the coming days would be horrific for him. By washing his feet and anointing them, Mary had given him a great gift of love and care with this simple, loving action. Jesus confronts Judas and his hypocrisy. 
Jesus knew Judas’ heart had changed, yet  He still loved him. What a loss for Jesus and for Judas. Jesus had lost a loved one and a follower but Judas had betrayed himself and his best friend! And for what: a bag of coins?
Do we have a “Judas” in our lives: someone who had hurt or betrayed us?  In all probability  most of us do. The question is: will we strive to follow in Jesus’ footsteps? Are we open to forgiving the person who hurt or betrayed us? And if we cannot answer yes, are we willing to desire to forgive the other to Jesus? Jesus will grace us with the ability to forgive, if we open our hearts to him. All we have to do is ask!

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